If -- The "if" here expresses a condition but it means nothing regarding whether that condition is met or not. It also means "if ever" and "whenever'".

 anyone -- The word translated as "any man" means primarily "anything" or "anyone". It uses the same form for both sexes and a different one for objects, so "anyone" works best here. 

comes -- The word translated as "come" primarily means "to start out" but Christ usually uses it to mean "come" but not always. It indicates movement, especially its beginning, without indicating a direction toward or away from anything, so it works either as "come" or "go", but it is more like our phrase "being underway."". Our English word "show up" captures both the "start" and "come" ideas. 

 to -- (CW) The word translated as "to" means "towards", "in front", "by reason of (for)" and "against".

me, -- Me" is the regular first-person pronoun in Greek.

and  -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis ("also") and, In a series, it is best translated as "not only...but also".  It is repeated a lot here, first connecting the two versions (comes" and "not hate") and then connecting all the objects hated. There is no need to repeat mentions of it except in its last instance. 

does -- This helping verb is used to create questions, commands, negative statements, and smooth word flow in English.

 not -- The Greek word translated as "not" is the Greek negative used to deny objective facts, not opinions. It makes a negative statement of fact. Adding "really" to the sentence captures the same idea.

 hate -- "Hated" is a Greek verb is translated as "to hate", “would not suffer" and in passive, "to be hated". But this word doesn't have the passionate or emotional intensity of the word “hate” in English. The word expresses a negative preference, not a strong passion. Jesus uses this word as the opposite of both the common Greek word translated as "love", whose meanings are closer to “care for” and “enjoy” (see this article). So, it means “not caring for” and “not enjoying". See this article on Greek concepts of love for more information.

his  - (CW) The "his" here is a keyword. It is usually translated as "himself" because it is a special reflexive pronoun that means "himself", "herself" and so on. It is not the simpler, much more common word that means "his". This word has more the sense of "his own". This translation is more general than the word's more specific meaning. 

missing "the/this"  -- (MW) The untranslated word is the Greek definite article," the", which usually precedes a noun or changes the word it precedes (adjective, infinitive, participle, etc.) to act like a noun. The Greek article is much closer to our demonstrative pronouns ("this", "that", "these" and "those"). See this article for more. 

father,  -- "Father" is the common word that Christ uses to address his own Father, though it can mean any male ancestor. When referring to others, Christ uses it to refer to their ancestors, that is, "forefathers".

 and -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis ("also"). In a series, it is best translated as "not only...but also".

missing "the/this"  -- (MW) The untranslated word is the Greek definite article," the," which usually precedes a noun or changes the word it precedes (adjective, infinitive, participle, etc.) to act like a noun. The Greek article is much closer to our demonstrative pronouns ("this," "that," "these," and "those"). See this article for more. 

mother, -- "Mother" is the common Greek word for "mother" and "grandmothers," but it also means "the source" of something.

 and -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis ("also") and, In a series, it is best translated as "not only...but also." 

missing "the/this"  -- (MW) The untranslated word is the Greek definite article," the", which usually precedes a noun or changes the word it precedes (adjective, infinitive, participle, etc.) to act like a noun. The Greek article is much closer to our demonstrative pronouns ("this", "that", "these" and "those"). See this article for more.

wife -- The word translated as "wife" is  the Greek word that means "woman (as opposed to man)", "wife", "spouse", "mortal woman (as opposed to a goddess)" and "female mate (among animals)". It is closer to our "female".  Jesus leaves this out of similar litanies of family members elsewhere in the Gospels. 

 and -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis ("also") and, In a series, it is best translated as "not only...but also".

missing "the/this"  -- (MW) The untranslated word is the Greek definite article," the", which usually precedes a noun or changes the word it precedes (adjective, infinitive, participle, etc.) to act like a noun. The Greek article is much closer to our demonstrative pronouns ("this", "that", "these" and "those"). See this article for more. 

children --- The word translated as "children" means "child" but in the most general sense of "offspring." Christ does not use it to refer specifically to children under seven, which is another term. See this article more about these words for "child."

 and -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis ("also") and, In a series, it is best translated as "not only...but also." 

missing "the/this"  -- (MW) The untranslated word is the Greek definite article," the," which usually precedes a noun or changes the word it precedes (adjective, infinitive, participle, etc.) to act like a noun. The Greek article is much closer to our demonstrative pronouns ("this," "that," "these," and "those"). See this article for more. 

brethren -- The word translated as "brother" means a biological brother, any kinsmen, and more broadly and friend or associate.

 and -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis ("also") and, In a series, it is best translated as "not only...but also".

missing "the/this"  -- (MW) The untranslated word is the Greek definite article," the", which usually precedes a noun or changes the word it precedes (adjective, infinitive, participle, etc.) to act like a noun. The Greek article is much closer to our demonstrative pronouns ("this", "that", "these" and "those"). See this article for more. 

sisters -- The word translated as "sister" is the female form of the word that means a biological brother, any kinsmen, and more broadly and friend or associate.

yes-- The word translated as "yes" means  "yet" and "still" (with the Present), "already" (with the Past), "yet" and "longer" (with the Future), "no longer" (with a negative), and"still" and "besides" (of degree).  

even -- The Greek word translated as "and" is used as the conjunction "and", but it also is used to add emphasis, "even", "also" and "just".

missing "more"  -- (MW) The untranslated word can be used as a conjunction "and", "more" or "both".   With the "and" or "also below when the items joined should be compared or contrasted rather than simply joined.   The word is a particle that is used with the conjunction "and" in a special way with the adverb above. The sense of this construction is to emphasize the final "and" meaning something like "beside, nay more". In this case, emphasizing the word translated as "life". 

their own -- (WN)The "their own" here is the same keyword used as above. It is usually translated as "himself" because it is a special reflexive pronoun that means "himself", "herself", and so on. It is not the simpler much more common word that means "his". When used in the possessive, it has the sense of "his own". This word is not plural but singular. 

life -- (CW) The word translated here as "soul" is psyche, a common word in Greek, familiar in English, translated commonly as "life", "soul", "consciousness" and "a sense of self". It is used for different aspects of "self", the emotional self, the conscious self, the intellectual self.  Jesus uses it to mean our identity in our worldly life specifically, the role we play on earth, what we might call the "self", "ego" or our "the person we are".   The problem with translating it as "life" is that another common Greek word means "life". The problem with "soul" is that it doesn't work for many verses because the "soul" is separate from the body. Though the word can mean a departed spirit, most of the word's meanings revolve around "self". "Soul" can also be confused with the concept of "spirit" which is another Greek word.   When "self" doesn't work, "person" offers the least confusion. See this article for detail about this word. 

such a person -- -- (IP) There is nothing that can be translated as this phrase in the Greek source. 

can -- (CW, WV) The word translated as "can" means having the power or possibly a desire to accomplish something. Often, in English, "can" is a helper verb, indicating a possibility. In Greek, it indicates ability or power. This is the active verb here, not a helper verb. It takes an infinitive as "have the ability" does in English. In English, "can" is a helper verb, indicating a possibility. See this article. 

not - The Greek word translated as "not" is the Greek negative used to deny objective facts, not opinions. It makes a negative statement of fact. Adding "really" to the sentence captures the same idea.

be  - (WF) The verb "be" here is the common form of "to be" in Greek. It means to have a certain characteristic or remain in a certain condition. It also equates terms or assigns characteristics. It form is the infinitive, "to be". This is not an active verb, but an infinitive. 

 my -- "My" is the regular first-person pronoun in Greek in the possessive form, so "my" or "of me". It appears here before the noun without an article. 

disciple -- (CW) "Disciple" is from the Greek meaning "learner'', "pupil', "student' and "apprentice'. "Disciple" is a religious spin on this concept, but that sense is not in the Greek word. This translation is more specific than the word's meaning.